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Saturday, October 12, 2013

Holly's Desire - MF Illustrated Spanking Story

Here's a story about a girlfriend who really wants to be spanked but can't get her boyfriend to do the deed (what an idiot !)
 Luckily she meets a few ladies who know exactly how to go about getting a spanking !

PS I should add that Holly is a Schoolteacher . Admittedly I do have a preference to seeing a  naughty teacher spanked....don't you?


Steve and Holly had been dating for around six months now and both were giving thoughts to the next step in the relationship.

In most aspects they were a well matched couple , including between the sheets , but both of them secretly felt there was still something missing .

Holly harbored a secret desire but was reluctant to share it with Steve for fear of him thinking she was ‘weird’ and jeopardizing the relationship.
At the same time she hesitated continuing with a relationship which left her unfulfilled.
Instead she had tried at every opportunity to give Steve as many hints and clues to allow him to unearth this desire but he had so far failed to pick up on any of her signals.
If this desire was not satisfied she wondered if the relationship had a future. 

While Holly had clear ideas of the missing link in the relationship , Steve was unsure.
Holly was great fun , attractive , intelligent , adventurous and their lovemaking sessions were great but he sensed a spark was needed.
He often felt that he was unable to completely satisfy Holly which hurt his male ego left him feeling unfulfilled as a partner and questioning the relationship.
Steve was also puzzled why she often acted like a brat and behaved badly for no reason.
He really did not know how to handle Holly when she behaved like that and was frustrated.
Desperate for reassurance and help , Steve called Holly’s best friend Paula for advice.
Steve and Paula worked in the same office and had known each other for years.
They even dated for a short period and it was Paula who introduced him to Holly after they broke up.
Steve often talked to Paula about various things and was very comfortable discussing personal matters and relationships with her.
He knew she would be honest and direct with him , and she also knew Holly very well.

Steve invited Paula to lunch and she immediately noticed he was not himself.
“What’s up Steve ? 
You look nervous and edgy…is everything going ok with you and Holly ?” she asked.
Steve welcomed the question so early in the conversation  but he still hesitated , poking his food with his fork.
“Well its going pretty well but….” He began.
Paula raised an eyebrow and prompted Steve to continue.
“But what ?”
Steve obliged and felt relieved at the opportunity to spill out his feelings to Paula’s sympathetic ear.
When he had finished Paula sported a mischievious grin.
Steve blushed thinking his rant was silly and had amused Paula.
“I think I can help you with this Steve …I know Holly “ she assured him.

Collecting her thoughts she began “ I’ll bet pretty often Holly is  rude and sassy with you , keeps you late and is a real brat at times? she asked. 
Steve was surprised that Paula’s statement was  so accurate.
“Why yes…and its so out of character for Holly.
Only last night she kept me waiting in the pouring rain for 20 minutes.
Not only did she not apologise but when I complained she told me to shut up !”an exasperated Steve said.

Paula smiled knowingly before scowling at Steve.
“Just like I used to treat you when we were dating ….and what did you do about it Steve ?”
Puzzled and ashamed , Steve shook his head .
“…yes …a lot like you did . I ignored it of course.” 
Paula bristled at Steve’s lame response.
“You are such a wimp Steve !” she scolded.
Steve shrugged his shoulders.
“You can’t let women get away with treating you like that Steve!” Paula lectured , her voice raising in frustration.

“What was I supposed to do ?” Steve mumbled.
Paula sighed and moved closer to Steve .
“After we broke up and I started dating Gerry and  I did the same thing with him but do you know what he did Steve?”
Steve shook his head dumbly.
“He put me over his knee and spanked me - HARD – that’s what Steve! If you’d had the guts to do that maybe we wouldn’t have broken up !”Paula blurted out.
Steve looked stunned but strangely interested at the revelation.
His first instinct was to discard it as a joke but Paula appeared deadly serious.
“Come on Paula…..spanking is for kids….You and Holly’ are 31 years old….” He reasoned.
Paula rolled her eyes in disbelief.
“You are so clueless sometimes Steve.
Spanking is an important part of lots of relationships  and Holly is crying out for one.
She wants you to take charge and put her over her knee and paddle that cute little tushie of hers until its red hot!
…. And trust me Steve – the sex afterwards will be unbelievable ” Paula replied.

Steve felt a charge of excitement pulse through his veins as he pictured Holly’s perfect , firm ass over his lap.
He smiled at Paula for the first time in the conversation.
“Sounds like your speaking from experience Paula “ he teased.
Paula was not in the least bit embarrassed.
“You’re spot on Steve – Gerry spanks my bottom when I need it and our marriage is stronger for it.” She responded calmly.
Paula’s openness impressed Steve and she spoke as if his reluctance to spank made him the ‘weird one’.
Having her bottom spanked seemed so natural to her.

Paula took out a pen and scribbled something on a napkin and handed it to Steve.
“Here , check out these websites.
They’ll give you some insight and hints on how to spank Holly properly.
Give it a try Steve . Holly is crying out for a spanking.” She told him.

All that talk about spanking left both Paula and Steve feeling quite hot and aroused when they returned to work.
Paula paused for a moment as she sat at her desk glancing at the phone.
How she wished Gerry were here to satisfy the desires welling up inside her.

Looking impish she picked up the phone and called her husband.
“Hi Darling , do you miss me ?” she cooed lustily when he answered.
Gerry was not amused as he was in an important meeting with customers.
Excusing himself he stepped outside.
“Paula I told you how important this meeting was.
If you don’t have a darn good reason for calling me you are in for it tonight young lady !” he said.

Gerry’s reaction was music to Paula’s ears.
“You mean a wife can’t call her husband to tell him how horny she is ?” she purred naughtily.
“I love you Paula but I really need to get back in this meeting.
But tonight you are in for a ‘red bottom special’ my dear – and when I say special -I mean special !” Gerry said before closing the phone.
Paula could only gasp and moan at his reply .

Meanwhile , a few offices down the hall Steve was still reflecting on his lunchtime conversation with Paula .
He was angry with himself for the missed opportunities to spank Paula’s glorious ass when they were dating and visions of spanking Holly’s delectable twin globes shot through his mind.

He thought about the way Holly had treated him the previous evening and he was angry with himself for not taking action.
Paula was right .
 If he wanted his relationship with Holly to blossom he had to start taking charge – and that meant giving Holly the spanking she needed and craved.

He felt confident and empowered for the first time and dialed Holly at work.
Holly was a Teacher at an elementary school and he knew she would be teaching class at this time but Steve decided that calling her out of class would emphasize his point.

The school Secretary popped her head into Holly’s grade 2 class.
“Miss Perkins , there’s a call for you.
You can take it in the office.”
Holly sighed and accepted the Secretary’s offer to watch her class until she returned.
Mrs. Murphy , the Vice Principal nodded at Holly and pointed to the phone at her desk.
“You can take it here Miss Perkins” she said warmly.
Holly’s face flushed when she heard Steve’s voice.
“Steve I’m in the middle of class – this better be important!” she said firmly but Steve was in no mood to be bullied .
In a firm tone he proceeded to lecture his dumbfounded girlfriend on her behavior , not just the previous evening but throughout their relationship.
He enjoyed taking charge and secretly so did Holly .
Her body tingled with excitement.
She gulped and listened in silence as Steve burnt her pretty ears.

“I’m…I’m so sorry Steve….you’re right …. I’ve behaved horribly…” she whispered trying to hide the conversation from the Vice-Principal who was still lurking nearby.
“Well that’s a start Holly but I’m not finished with you yet young lady.
Before we go to dinner tonight you’re going to get something you’ve needed for a long time – a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking !
Perhaps sitting on a hot , smarting bottom for a couple of hours will teach you some manners.” Steve declared.
He could hardly believe what he had said and waited anxiously for Holly’s reaction.
Holly’s heart pounded and she felt a warmth in her loins at the very anticipation of the spanking she craved.
“Yes Steve – I guess I do deserve a s..sp…spanking “ she replied lowering her voice in the hope the VP would not hear.

Despite her efforts Mrs. Murphy heard every word and grinned ,glancing over at Holly .
Mrs. Murphy was an attractive lady in her fifties with horn-rimmed glasses and grey hair tied up neatly in a bun.
She cast Holly a Motherly look as she hung up the phone.
“If that boyfriend of yours cares enough to give you a good spanking then I suggest you marry him Dear .” she said softly.
Holly was surprised at the comment and blushed as Mrs. Murphy put an arm around her.
“If it makes you feel any better dear my husband and I have been married for almost 25 years and he still gives me a  good spanking when I need it – which is more often than you might imagine...” she mused.
Holly was surprised and comforted by the older woman’s candor.

Holly had trouble teaching the remainder of her class as her mind constantly wandered to the fiery bottom warming she would be receiving later that evening.
How hard would he spank ? 
How long? What would it feel like to have her bottom bared ?

Steve rolled down his car window as he spotted Paula getting into her car in the parking lot.
“You’re leaving early Steve….got a date with Holly ?” she teased.
Steve nodded and grinned proudly.
“We’re going out to dinner tonight but Holly’s going to have a little trouble sitting .” he told her.
Paula feigned a pout and put a palm to the seat of her skirt.
“She won’t be the only one !
Gerry’s going to really blister my bottom for disturbing his meeting .” she chuckled , rubbing her bottom vigorously.
Steve was impressed at her matter of fact attitude and how naturally she spoke about her impending spanking.
It was clear she was looking forward to being spanked as much as he was looking forward to spanking Holly.

Gerry and Paula had been spanking for years now so the routine was well established.
When Paula arrived home they kissed and Gerry continued to prepare dinner while Paula showered.
After her shower Gerry would sit on the bed and wait for Paula to emerge.
The hairbrush sitting beside him signaled to her what was to come.
She stood beside his lap and he undid the towel covering her still moist body and let it fall to the floor.
Paula laid herself over his lap and let Gerry adjust her position.
As he teasingly rubbed the brush over her bottom cheeks he lectured her on the reason for her spanking.
Her cheeks clenched in anticipation as Gerry concluded the lecture and raised the brush.

A few hours later , Holly was squirming and shifting uncomfortably on her chair as the waiter greeted them with the dinner specials.
Under her little black dress the hot skin of her buttocks felt like it was roasting and smoldering inside her silk panties.
The heat was intense and it really stung.
No position was comfortable for sitting.

Her first spanking from Steve had been a sound one and she would be feeling the effects for a while.
Steve had made no mention of her impending spanking when he arrived to pick her up and waited until she was changing out of her school clothes .
Holly was wearing only a pair of black , silk bikini panties when a strangely confident Steve entered the bedroom.

Her jaw dropped and her mouth went dry as he took her by the wrist and let her over to the chair.
Before she could react , he had her firmly in place over his knee , her palms on he floor and her bottom in the air.
Instinctively she struggled , especially when she felt his fingers in the waistband of her undies .
Steve whisked them down and admired the sight of Holly’s firm , round bottom.
His hand descended on her bare rump until it was a glowing red and then he spanked it some more.
Afterwards the lovers had spent so much time making love  they were almost late for their reservation.

Steve burst out laughing when the waiter announced one of the specials as a rump roast.
The waiter smiled and looked confused.
“Its ok….the lady already has a roasted rump !” he explained.
Holly winced and sarcastically glared at Steve.
“Ha – Ha.” She mocked .

Meanwhile Paula was gripping hard onto Gerry’s leg and kicking her long legs wildly as she struggled over her husband’s lap.
Having soundly warmed his naughty wife’s bottom  with a fiery hair-brushing  , Gerry was rounding off her spanking with a good old fashioned hand-spanking.
Paula’s bottom glowed red and she howled hoarsely at every stinging whack of his palm.
Gerry delivered a final volley of swats which had Paula bucking on his lap.

They were both out of breath as Paula slid off Gerry’s lap onto her knees.
Moaning lustily she hungrily undid the zipper on his jeans to unleash the erection she had been grinding on.
Gerry clamped his hands onto the hot skin of Paula’s buttocks .
She gasped and her eyes opened wide as saucers as she fondled his shaft .
Their bodies merged into one and their lips locked in a long breathless kiss .

Back at the restaurant Holly waved as she noticed Mrs. Murphy enter the restaurant with her husband.
Mrs. Murphy looked much different outside school with her long , shoulder length hair flowing over her shoulders and her ample curves hugging a classic red dress and matching heels.
She looked simply stunning.
Mr. Murphy helped her with her coat as they walked to their table.
Spotting Holly she gave her a wave as her husband stood behind her and courteously pulled out her chair for her to sit.
She grimaced and her lips pursed in an audible “OW!” as she cautiously sat down.
Holly’s jaw dropped in surprise.
“Surely she wasn’t….could she ?” she pondered to herself.
As dinner continued Holly could not resist glancing over at the older couple and noticed Mrs. Murphy was squirming and shifting on her seat just as much as Holly was.

After a while  Mrs. Murphy came over to greet Holly who introduced her to Steve before inviting her on a trip to the ‘little girls room’.
Once inside the sanctuary of the Ladies room ,the usually conservative Mrs. Murphy was as giddy as a schoolgirl and anxious to learn more about Holly’s first spanking.
“Your boyfriend is charming Miss Perkins .
So  tell me my dear, will he be giving you that spanking after dinner ?” she tittered.
Holly blushed and gently rubbed the seat of her dress.
“Actually he gave it to me before dinner……and boy did her roast my bottom!
I’ve been squirming in my seat for an hour and it still stings .” she exclaimed .

Holly felt relieved to be able to talk to someone so frankly about spanking.
She wasn’t weird after all.
Spanking felt perfectly natural to her now and she wasn’t alone in her desires. 
“I noticed you weren’t exactly sitting comfortably Mrs. Murphy, ?” Holly enquired.
Mrs. Murphy winced and gingerly put her palms to her seat and rubbed gently.
“It’s the last week of the month- report card time.
Harold keeps track of my behavior for the month and then grades me on a report card.
He insists on completing it before dinner as he believes sitting on a hot bottom to be very thereputic.
The poorer my grade – the harder and longer the spanking .
Unfortunately , this was a particularly bad month for me , a C- in fact, so he really sizzled my poor bottom.” She pouted.

As a Teacher , Holly thought the report card was a great idea and was curious to hear more.
“So what happens when you get a C-?” she asked.
Mrs. Murphy grimaced again and continued to rub her bottom.
“It means the dreaded hairbrush my dear!
Excuse me but if you don’t mind , I  came in here to tend to this properly.” She sighed.
With that she hoisted her skirt ,wiggled her hips and carefully eased down her pantyhose and undies.
“AAAAHHH that’s better already …” she exhaled putting her soothing palms on the hot , red skin of her derrierre.
“How about you dear?” the older lady asked.
Holly hiked up her skirt.

“Oh my…..mind if I have a closer look ?” Mrs Murphy asked eagerly.
Gladly obliging , Holly leaned forward to proudly display her red rear .
“Mmmm….impressive ….not bad for a beginner!?” she remarked after the inspection.
“Yea …he spanked me non-stop for  good 20 minutes or so .” Holly added.

Mrs. Murphy turned around also and hoisted her dress higher to give Holly a look at the damage caused by the hairbrush.
“Wow!” was all Holly could say.
The Vice-Principal’s bottom and upper thighs were a flaming red with deep red ovals visible where the brush had landed again and again.
Mild blisters were forming right on her ‘sit spot’ .
Holly was surprised she could sit at all.
“Harold’s aim is true and he makes sure he really hits that spot between my cheeks and thighs so I really feel it when I sit for dinner !”
The pair chatted like two football players discussing injuries and soon lost track of time.

“What were you two doing in there Holly ?
Your coffee is cold.” Steve scolded upon her return.
Carefully settling into her seat Holly replied “Oh shut up Steve…..”
An exasperated Steve raised an angry brow,
“I guess you know what that just earned you Holly Perkins ?
Finish your coffee…we’re going to have to really work on your manners when I get you home!” he announced.

Holly tried to look frightened , but it was just what she had hoped for and inside she just couldn’t wait to get home.
Mrs. Murphy also received an angry reception from Harold for her tardiness.
“This will be noted for you next report card my Dear and you know what that means!” he told her.
“AW NO Harold ………AAAAAAAAH !” she squealed after plopping herself hard onto the seat.
Harold laughed at her comical reaction.
“Its not funny Harold “ she pouted.

As Paula lay on her tummy in bed with her red bottom on display and her head snuggled into Gerry’s muscular chest she thought about her friend Holly and her impending fate.
Was she also lying in bed with a red bottom and fully satisfied at last ?
Did Steve have the courage to satisfy her desires ?

Over at the Murphy’s , Harold was carefully applied some cooling cream to his wife’s red-striped bottom as she lay face down on the bed , a pillow tucked under her chin.
Harold let his hand wander into the jewels between her legs and leant over to kiss the back of her neck.
“I wonder if Miss Perkins will get another spanking for being tardy.
Her nice boyfriend looked quite upset …”she mused out loud.
Harold delivered a sharp smack which made his wife’s cheeks quiver.
“OW “ she yelped.
“I told you to stop being a busybody Janice…that will go on your report card also young lady!” Harold scolded. 

“YEOOOW….AAAAH…please Steve I’m sorry…no more…my butt is on fire!” Holly protested as another stroke of the leather strap cracked across her tender backside as she struggled to stay in place bent over the chair.
“Stay in place and stick that bottom right out Holly…you have one more!” Steve told her.
Tears were welling in Holly’s eyes now as the sting in her already hot bottom intensified.

Obediently she thrust out her shapely bottom for the final stroke.
Steve made sure it was one to remember as the leather seared across Holly’s bottom.
She let out a most unladylike howl and leapt to her feet clutching her scorched cheeks with both palms.
Steve tried not to chuckle at the sight of Holly dancing around the room trying vainly to rub out the sting.
He took hold of her and pulled her close to him , wiping her tears and gently 
kissed her forehead.
Completely naked , Holly’s heart was pounding but she had never felt so warm , safe and fulfilled in a man’s arms as she did now.
She melted into Steve’s arms .
At last Steve felt his feelings for Holly were complete.


  1. This is my most popular post by far.....but no comments!
    I would be interested to learn why so many spankos are drawn to this one.

    1. Probably both men and women want to read stories where a girl has fantasized about getting a spanking for a long time. When she finally gets it, it hurts much more - and she gets more than she bargained forand loses control. After the spanking dance and the comforting, she finds out that she likes it after all, and enjoys knowing that she is not in control when it comes to her husband or boyfriend spanking her.

    2. I feel it is a pity if a young lady wants to get spanked and her boyfriend cannot get the idea. My best advice is to retend to be jealous and accuse him of trying to make passes at your best friend - and perhaps even slapping his face during your temper tantrum. Most men would deliver a good bare-bottomed spanking after that, and the lady would be sure of his love and attention. And hopefully she'd have got more than she bargained for in the form of a very red and sore bottom.

    3. I think it is popular because so many of us (men and women) know the frustration of not getting the spankings we so desperately crave from our partners, but when the story has a happy ending, there is a deep emotional satisfaction. The last two images are wonderful. Steve has so thoroughly fulfilled Holly’s wish that when she begs him to stop, he demonstrates his authority by telling her to stick her bottom out for one more lick of the strap. And when they embrace in the final frame, Holly must feel as though she has found her way home. Because I am male, but also a bottom, I am able to identify with Holly and Steve simultaneously.

  2. My girlfriend lied to me big time one time, she felt so bad she asked for a good hard spanking until she was completely cathartic. She made me promise not to stop until she was sobbing like a child. I told her I would if she would submit to it and there would be no limit on the number of swats. She agreed and pulled her jeans and panties down and put her over my knee. She is only 5’2 and very petite. I spank her good and hard until it hurt my hand. She did this cute little spanking dance. She arched her back, stiffened like a board, rubbing her backside, hoping up and down, hollering, and turning about. It was so cute and I got so turned on watching her do it but she wasn’t crying. Then I removed my belt as she lay over a couch. I started off slow but very hard. I knew she was at her pain limit when she started to bucking, clench and unclenching involuntarily, gripping the blankets, pushing her face into a pillow and biting like crazy in attempts to muffle her screaming; that’s when I laid into her with fast and hard swats, no pauses between swats, until she was absolutely sobbing beyond words. She was hiccup crying, like when she was a kid. She never lied to him again and thanked me for helping her with her guilt. She asked for it I gave it to her, but she was so cute doing that spanking dance.

    1. I agree with you that the post spanking dance is really cute....and quite a turn on. Too bad we don't see it featured more often in spanking stories and pictures.

    2. Well, yo he honest, I rather enjoyed seeing her do it. It was a big turn on but also a testament that I was getting through to her. She has a very high pain tolerance and I had to spank her for a very long time as hard as I could with my hand until she even started fluttering her feet. I only stopped when my hand was stinging. Buy watching her stiffen, arch her back, clench her bottom tight, rubbing like crazy and hopping up and down all the while her pants and panties down to down to her knees was quite a sight. She was so adorable. I agree I don't hear about it much myself but to see happen to my girlfriend who 22 was awesome.

    3. When my husband spanks me its always bare no panties on at all. He always start an dam egg timer and he spanks me good for three whole minutes. First minute medium force and medium speed.bye than resets the dam timer and spanks me hard with medium speed for another minute. Resets the dam timer and lays into me really and really fast for the last minute. I too do the spa my dance �� too and I'm 35 years old. Most of the time its instinctive because that last minute is so hard and fast, but sometimes I because I know he like it and it turns him on too. This is maintenance spanking. If its a punishment spanking I get a belt, paddle or a switch from the cherry tree we have in the back yard. The punishment spanking always after a good maintenance one as a warm up.

    4. There is a nice spanking dance mentioned in this story:

    5. Here’s a story that has the post spanking dance in it. Here's a good story:

  3. I like the egg-timer idea but he's letting you off easy with only 3 minutes....does he use the timer for the punishment spanking?

    1. Oh, yeah, for punishment spanking he set that dam timer for three sometimes four minutes with his hand, no-stop. He lets me up and I do that embarrassing spanking dance. Than, I have to hold our agreement contract against the wall in the dam coner, with my noise and than he sets the timer again and doesn't let me know how long. When the timer goes off, I have to lay over the side of the bed with legs dangling over the side. He moves his belt jeans and panties off. Than he gives me a lickin. No specified number of swats. He just continues until, I am crying uncontrollably. My husband does play when it comes to punishment spankings. The timer is always used in punishment spankings. Do you do that horrible spanking dance too. Are your punishment spanking that hard?

    2. I absolutely hate the kitchen timer idea. The absolute worse spanking my boyfriend ever gave me, to date, was two weeks ago. I got mad and lost my temper. I egged his truck with two down eggs. He got a solid oak back scatter. Set the timer and paddle the dickens out of my bare bottom for two full minutes,, over his knee. I was screaming and hollering like all get out. Afterwards, I had to wash it myself. I am speaking from experience, don't mess with a cowboys truck, especially if it belongs your boyfriend.

    3. If I egged my HOH's car he'd beat my ass too. Your lucky he didn't take a switch to you. One time lost my temper with him and screamed right in his face, in front of his best friend. When his friend left, he made me pull my own pants and panties down all the to my ankles and he took a hairbrush to my bare ass until I was screaming. I literally had blisters over my entire backside. I say you got off easy with a backscatter for two minutes.

    4. A egg timer? a timed spanking, hmmmmmm :)

  4. My boyfriend likes me to do the spankin dance just like you described. Arched back, hips pushed forwards, hands rubbing and hoping up and down. I like a good hard spaking with his hand. I push my legging and panties down and he puts me onver his lap and spankings me good for a few mintues with his hand. He ussually spanks me long and hard enough, I instictively do it and I don't have to predend it hurts like all get out. I hop around for a good minute. Because he likes to see and gets so turned on, I do it for him intentionally. It turns him on so much. I get a red bottom, he gets a spanking dance, we are both turned on and than. . . .

    1. Glad you enjoyed the story and thanks for sharing.
      Spanking dance is a great turn on and so is cornertime standing with that red bottom on display .Hands on head , so no rubbing but I love to watch the squirming , wiggling and jiggling .....

  5. I like a real spanking like the kind that goes on until I am sobbing. I finally opened up to boyfriend of 8 month that I like spanking. So we tried a few times. He spanked me until he was comfortable a few time. Than he spanked me until I safe worded out a few times. He gave me a few timed 2 minutes hand spanking a few weeks later which was pretty good. But they were always over my cloths Than I told what I really wanted to try. Told him I wanted a very long no-nonsense real discipline punishment style spanking until I am crying beyond my ability to make words. I wanted to feel the trepidation of relinquish my safe word. To have no time limit, no swat limit, no protection. I wanted to feel the anticipation of slowly pushing my pants and panties down myself, not knowing when its going to stop or how many I was going to get. I want to try to experience the thrill and endorphins surge of making the choice, to feel adrenaline rush to will myself of staying in position and take it, no matter how bad it hurt until I was crying out of control and feel that cathartic emotional release. He was very reluctant at first and we talked about it for days. I wanted him to start off slower and build up so that that the spanking would last longer. At first he wasn’t wanting to because he was concerned welts and bruises. After telling him that I expected that. Its still took him over week before he realized I was serious. He finally decided to give it a try. We had to wait for his roommate to leave for the weekend. We got to his place. I slowly pushed my jeans and panties all the down my knees. He put me over his lap started spanking me with his hand really hard for a really long time. I mean after a good solid minute he began with those rapid fire smacks for another 3 while I was fluttering my feet like all get out. He finally let me up and I did that post spanking hop. I stiffened up, flew my hands over my ass as I pushed my hips forward and began rubbing frantically as I was hoping up and down. I was far from crying but I sure was fussing because that was the hardest and longest hand spanking I had ever got. After I calmed down enough stay in one place. He went to his room and came back a pillow. He pulled off his leather but fairly thin office belt doubled it half and asked me. “Ok, are you absolutely sure, no safe word, no time limit and no swat limit?” I respond with a yes. “Ok, that means I decide when this whippin stops not you, you sure that’s what you want, I mean it this belt spanking will continue until you are crying so hard you can’t make out words?” There I was jeans and panties down to ankles now. As I was still rubbing I looked directly into his eyes, I shuffled over and gently put my arms around him and hugged him. I gave him a long passainate kissed ever so gently and I and said, “Yes, please, I really do want to try this. So please don’t hold back but just start of slowly ok?” “You'll get quit a few before I finish you off. Remember, your safe word is nullified the moment you laid over couch. I laid over the arm of the couch after he gave me his bed pillow to hang on too. He started in hard and continuous about one whack per second and it just seem to go on and on. I was fussing and yelling quite a bit every time the belt came down. Than right no where he startes beating my ass really and really fast. It took my breath away. I shoved my face I to my pillow and started biting it trying to muffle my screaming. He wasn't stopping, instinctively I tried shouting my safe word but he ignored it and he kept whacking away. I was kicking and screaming and it seemed like it would never end. I don’t know how long it lasted but I finally broke into sobbing but he still kept whipping my ass hard and fast. When he finally stopped I was bawling so hard I was hiccup crying and my eyes were all puffy and stinging as tears were flowing. I just laid there sobbing. I couldn’t believe I was actually able to will myself to accept it. Its was pure release. Am I the only who likes getting spanked so hard?

  6. Here's a good story:

  7. I have always believed that when a naughty lady is spanked on her bare bottom. The spanking should be painful enough so that she shed tears. That is the only way one can tell if the spanking is an effective one.

    1. What does a real discipline spanking looks like for most of you here? Does it always make you cry, is there a specified number of whacks? Is it fast with no pauses between swats. Are you required to stand in the corner? Do you have bare your bottom or does he do that? What does he ussually use, a belt, paddle, I've read about a bamboo backscratcher (never had that, does that really sting that bad), hairbrush ect.? Do you have to perform a spanking dance (never did that yet) like I've read about or back in a corner. My boyfriend and I are making a discipline agreement and what a discipline spanking should like and what is normal?

  8. When my boyfriend decides to give me a real spanking he spanks me on the bare too. I mean, I have to take everything down to my knees. He takes that dam bamboo backscratcher and paddles me. His motto is bamboo until I boohoo. He believes the spanking does even really began until after I start crying. He always uses his favorite movie series title to tell me what kind of paddling I'm going to get. It begins, continues and ends "fast and furious." I get no warm up, its always starts bare, with the bamboo, hard, "fast and furious" and no specified number of whacks, so it does end until he decides it ends. He paddles the Dickens out of my until I am hiccup sobbing out of control. That's what he calls a real blistering.

  9. I think that is as it should be. The girl should not be the one to decide when she has been spanked properly. Any girl can turn on the tears and promises to avoid more crack with the hairbrush on her bare behind, so the man must go on until he's sure that she's learned her lesson. After the spanking it is time for cuddling and making up, but the spanking must be a real one for the dynamics to work.

  10. I have begged my hubby for a spanking and he keeps saying...I was raised it is wrong to hit a woman. I want to incorporate spanking into our marriage. He wants nothing to do with it. What am I supposed to do. I brat out just to try and make him get mad enough to. No good. Even playtime or maintenance spankings he does not want to do. How do I make him understand? This is not hitting me it is what i need and crave!!

    1. You might want to try sharing this story with him and explain to him that its a way for him to show his love for you. Good luck.

    2. Share these Stories with him

      Story 1: Spanking Friend and Neighbor

      Story 2: Spanking Engagment

      Story 3: Spanking Contest

  11. Try to axxuse him of cheating on you and slap his face. Most men would react with a spanking to that - partly out of frustration at being slapped for no reason and partly to "prove" that he is not cheating. You may get a harder spanking than you would like, but that's the risk you women run when you provoke your husbands to spank you.

  12. I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds of spankings, from erotic to just because spanking and even real ones that make her loss her composure, cry and sob. I see it as a gift of submission she gives me. She always has a safe word unless it's a real one she like to get sometimes.

    Fortunately, I have a girlfriend who likes it also. She actually turned me on to it and brought out the spanko in me. Is it wrong to admit that I enjoy it? I get so turned on as I watch take her pants down knowing that she has given me full permission to spank her or sometime give her a real one. I have conflicting emotions inside. I don't like woman who are abused but I like spanking my girlfriend now.

    Its like is a psychological afrodeysic to me. I love the control aspect, its like asking me to discipline her is the ultimate sign of respect and I feel honored she choose me to have that authority.

    The actual spanking is exciting to me also. I mean when I turn her over my knee and it completely consensual I feel so stimulated by the whole experience. Seeing her beautiful bare bottom in front of me knowing she is expecting me to spank her and sometimes until she is crying hysterically is huge rush.

    For real ones she always like to to be spanked until she cries really hard. But she has a extremely high pain tolerance so I have to wail on her ass really and fast for a long time to push her over the edge to loose her composer. Sometime with no warm up, she likes the "shock and awe" effects from the start for rhe real spankings. For real one she relinquishes her safe word. She says a real spanking isn't worth taking unless it's unbearable and doesn't make her cry, so she expects me to make her cry hard. She likes the cathartic release about once a month.

    Is it wrong to feel good about having that authority and power she gave me. I also really get turned on when I start to spank her usually start out with my hand to start with. I am so stimulated when I see her clench up tight and I see all the muscular definition of her butt cheecks.

    It is electifying for me to hear her react and I feel compelled to smack harder and faster. To see her feet fluttering and her ass cheecks are turning red to bright red, its like I go into a trance in my mind. The longer the spanking goes on the more I get turned on and I am not sure if I should feel guilty of that or not?

    I have never seen her do the post spanking hop I heard some described but I might bring that up to my Jill. I usually use my belt over my knee for discipline and I feel the powerful sense of authority as I began removing it and I feel extremely respected by Jill as she begins dropping her pants when I order her too.

    Is something wrong with me, that after experienced spanking someone that I discovered that I really like it myself? Am I the only guy who feels these things. Or is my girlfriend just weird that she loves the pain of a good sound butt blistering once a month.

  13. Marcus, my girlfriend, now my wife is spanked, she initiated it, but has learned there are times she does not want one. One particular spanking she does not want to be reminded of, happened when we were dating. She and her best friend got somewhat drunk, thankful I was along and could drive them home. Her friend spent the night, that next morning when they walked into the kitchen late, the hairbrush was on the table. My girlfriend knew fully well and was soon bare bottom over my lap, her friend watching in shock. I got up to get a cup of coffee after the spanking and took her friends arm and she too was soon over my lap, bare bottom and put on some show. What my girlfriend did not like at the time, both of them stood facing the wall, and when her mother dropped in, saw them, both wanted to run and hide. I called her mother, both got another spanking from her, worse than mine, both were given baths like naughty little girls and then both spent the day with her. I'm reminded of that, but I just show the nice paddle her mother gave me and the subject is changed.

  14. My wife was a spoiled child, no one wanted to take her out, I dated her several months, putting up with her attitude and finally decided to see how strong our relationship was. I spent a long weekend with her, nice apartment, she was truly herself the evening before. I walked into the bathroom, she was drying off, out of here she said sternly, enough I said, grabbed her arm, took her the bedroom, sat on the edge of the bed, your getting a spanking as I pulled her across my lap. I reddened her bottom and warmed it very nicely. She kicked and squirmed and finally pleaded, I finally stood her up, this is only the first one young lady, now finish getting cleaned up, she rubbed, looked at me and did as told. I told her we were going out, she said nothing, squirmed in the seat and when we stopped at her mother's home, she gave me that look. No sooner had we walked in the home she told her mother that I spanked her, her mother looked at me and told her daughter lets see, they went to the bedroom and when they returned, her mother looked at me, gave me a big hug and said about time. Mother my girlfriend said, young lady, long over due so best get use to it. When we were leaving her mother handed me a large hairbrush, save your hand, I looked at my girlfriend and enjoyed the look in her eyes. The sex life has really improved since the spankings started, no sex after a spanking.

  15. This male always gets an erection reading stories like this. Just something about spanking a woman. As for doing it, big question, really do not know how one would take it, or was I reading her wrong. Just best to read stories likes these and stay out of trouble.

    1. Best way is to bring up the subject casually in a conversation , or perhaps issue a spanking threat and see how she reacts. Worth a try as you don't know what your missing!

    2. So I took your advise, she was not surprised, said other dates have mentioned but never did, nothing more was said. When she came to the kitchen the next morning, barely dressed as usual, I smiled at her, stood up to pull the chair out, but I sat down and soon was spanking. She protested a little, but when done, she looked at me, smiled. She said women sometimes wanting a spanking, I said I'll decide the sometime.

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